Wow, I must be gaining maturity or something. I spent months on a project—and quite a bit of money—and it's pretty much a write-off and total disaster, and I'm fine. No tears, no hysterics, no throwing things (I've never been much of a thrower—once in 1982, and never since). Why? Because I learned some valuable lessons, and I love learning (hence the "hurrah!"). What did I learn? Well, let's start by revealing the disaster, and in case you think "It's not that bad" I'll inclu
